An old woman's interview who spent 50 years calmly with her husband
The lady was asked that what is the secret of this 50-year-old calm life? Was he very special about making food? Or is it his beauty? Or there is a problem of all children, or is it something else?
The old woman replied: The calm of a quiet married life is in the hands of the woman after Tawafqah, if a woman can make her house a paradise, and whether she wants it, unlike it, Hell can also make it.
Do not name the property in this regard, many rich women whose lives are made, the husband runs away from them.
There is no reason for married marriage, there are many women whose tales are children, yet they are deprived of husband's love, but it becomes better for divorce.
Many women are specialists in cooking, maintaining food throughout the day, but they still remain complaining of husband's abuse.
The interview woman was very surprised, she asked: Then what is the secret of this prosperous life?
The old woman replied: When my husband is very angry, I support silence, but this silence also includes respect, I bow with sadness. Some women are silent on such occasions, but it includes the element of temptation, it should be avoided, the wise person casts it immediately.
The female lady asked: Why do not you get out of the room on such a occasion?
The old lady replied: No, doing this will make the husband feel that you are running away from him, do not even want to listen. It should be silent on such a occasion and should not oppose anything until he calm down.
When the husband gets somewhat calm, I say: what is your matter? Then I go away from the room because the husband is tired and he is tired and now he needs a little rest after running. I get out of the room and get involved in my usual tasks.
The lady journalist asked: What do you do after that? Do you want to stop speaking? Do not talk about a weekend?
The old woman answered: No! This bad habit should always be avoided, it is milk weapons, when you will not talk to a husband for a week when he needs to be reconciled with you then it will be accustomed to this condition and then it Things will grow as a dangerous kind of hatred.
The journalist asked: What do you do then?
Speak old women: I take a glass juice or a cup to the husband after two hours and I say in a loving manner: Take it. Actually, husband needs the same. Then I start talking to him normally. She asks whether I am angry with him? I say no. Then she apologizes on her hard words and begins to talk beautifully.
The interview woman asked: And what do you take from her?
Speak old women: Of course, I'm a little bit upset, I trust myself. Do you want my husband to be angry when I am sure of everything and when he is calm, do not you listen to him?
The lady journalist asked: and your self respect?
The old lady says: The first thing is that my respect is only when my husband is pleased with me and my married life is calm.
Secondly, there is nothing to be named by the husband's wife
What kind of respect are men and women each other's clothes?
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